As vanity borne the need to uphold a personal acceptable image.. we groom, prevent and protect.
As inability to tolerate manipulable pain, unhealthiness and appearance.. we groom and heal.


As issues of health and beauty get media-tised and perharps dramatised, we groom, prevent and protect.


Prevention would not require healing. Yet to prevent.. you might need some kind of protection and grooming. So in this situation (the one I have in my mind..) protection and grooming takes the same form. In the same scenario..healing is another form of prevention (the prevention of being deteriorated)


And these four are inter-related in what way or another. Changing its causal-effect relationship in different circumstances. While all this scenarios/situation and circumstances I have in mind are mainly with respect to health and beauty issues that I have in mind...Just before I slept last night...I realised how it applies aptly into another aspect of life. Perharps it's not another aspect of life but another part of me.


While it stands true to me that vanity and recent health (seen as hidden vanity to me) would require grooming, healing, protecting and preventing, the soul and mind requires the same thing but in an abstract way. A non-material way. A sweeter, heart-warming way. A metaphorical way.


Ever felt that someone's words to you is a form of grooming? The elevation of confidence and radiance in yourself. The assurance that you are of certain calibre and attributes. The unseen and embedded confidence that drills deep down into your soul that probably works better than materialistic kind of grooming.


Ever felt that someone's voice and presence is a form of healing to your soul? No matter how desperate and crush you become..at the end of the day, the soul recovers all because of the smallest smallest thing that 'this medication' gives. To the soul, it's the best medication in town. A broken soul, a soul possibly on the verge of being lost and empty yet just that dose of medication..it heals.


Ever felt that by having someone being there, it prevents you from falling into the darkest hole in life? Or perharps prevent from falling deeper..


Ever felt protected because you have the presence and hugs from someone? Be it the subtle embrace from just having someone beside you or the warm and tight security you yield from lovely hugs..perharps perharps it's psychological or simply just the courage that someone gives you that when you feel braver, you felt protected.


I felt these.


But i only realised how the soul is experiencing the same thing as the appearance and health(as in the same four words) just before I sleep last night. I almost forgot I derived this thought since i got it in sleepiness *Amazing. Just in a split second..






All the things that I could go "out-of-tune"

* on a sidenote, the network installer guy for the interview room 2 is damn irritating. I haven met a weirder kind than this so far in SERI...i'm not so dumb to give you my private hp no. Hellos.. i'm 20-to-be soon...not like a little gal that you can con. Very lame excuse. Looks like I shall ignore your call on Mon..since I dont think the company needs your service now. ZZZz. Yet I don't know of a better way to reject the very lame excuse. Shall avoid for the time being.

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